Positivity is when you fall in a pit and instead enjoy the beautiful sky while waiting for help to come. That is what we envision it to be, the past month was not the best of month to the best of common knowledge since almost everyone was complaining about something; unfortunately, not all of us are capable of thinking that way. You look around for some positive inspiration every morning to get you through the day because: you are broke, angry, depressed, all the above. There are a couple of people who when situations get tough they become hard to be around,
tempers flare, moods get too low, they are always on the negative side (this probably describes everyone) not because they want to be that way but sometimes you have too much weighing on you that you do not even notice yourself taking out on others because you are blaming yourself for whatever situation you are going through (which in most occasions is actually your fault but we do not want you doing something to yourself just because of that). Then there are those people who blame the world and the universe in general for every single problem they go through, these kinds of people will blame the Government when they trip on a stone in the road and blame the house maid when they pour tea on themselves.
All in all, we have different ways of handling tough situations, the worst of type of people are those who keep it all in and you do not even notice that they are going through something, they are those who help you through your situations and stand by you. You see their smiles, their efficiency but you will not notice that deep down they have a lot going on, that when they go back to their homes they have thoughts of taking their own lives. The rate at which people are taking their lives is quite alarming and sad, you do not want to see someone’s life ended instantly all because of too much bottled up within them.
Signs of depressed and sometimes suicidal tendencies
Yes, we see them every day and we do not notice and this is not because we do not care but you cannot force someone to pour their guts out for you, it is a personal decision people make. If you have a problem or going through tough situations, there is always someone out there you can talk to, someone who will lend you a shoulder to cry on, and someone who will hold your hand when you cannot stand on your own. Do not keep it all in and bottle yourself away from the World because there is always someone who cares about you, so before you contemplate on taking your own life, think about the people that love you, your family, your friends always look at the brighter side of every situation and remember that it is always darkest before dawn.